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He was 16 years old, he was a pedophile, and he had to do something about it.We have a few go-to archetypes when it comes to pedophilia: There is the playground lurker, the chat-room predator, and the monstrous (often religious) authority figure. The defines a pedophile as an individual who “over a period of at least six months” has “recurrent, intense sexually arousing fantasies, sexual urges, or behaviors involving sexual activity with a prepubescent child or children.” This person also has to have “acted on these sexual urges, or the sexual urges or fantasies cause marked distress or interpersonal difficulty,” and be “at least age 16 years and at least five years older than the child or children” involved.
The man in the video was one of those guys they sometimes talked about on the news.
Though Adam didn’t want to hurt anyone, he knew that, on some level, he was just like him.
“I see an innocence in children that would be violated,” he said.
It is why the video of the toddler, out of everything he’d seen, rattled him.
“I’m 18 and non-exclusively attracted to boys and girls of all ages (particularly very young ones).
I am the leader of a support group for non-offending pedophiles around my age…
These men are usually middle-aged, unrepentant serial abusers who are caught only after remaining undetected for years. Anecdotal evidence suggests that most pedophiles first notice an attraction toward children when they themselves are between 11 and 16, mirroring that of any other sexual awakening.
It can be a confusing time for any of us, but imagine realizing that you’re attracted to little kids. Or is it possible for them to live a life without hurting children at all? I came across a site for self-described pedophiles who acknowledged their attraction and wanted help dealing with it.
How do these young men and women negotiate that with no viable role models or support network? But the men I met were in their 50s and 60s, and I’d hoped to speak with someone younger, someone still coming to terms with what he was learning about himself.
I asked them if they knew anyone like that, and a few weeks later I received an email.“My name is Adam,” it read.
“I wanted to reach through the computer screen and kill the person,” Adam said.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating